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Karma Master |
Karen,
Best wishes for great success w/Zeegers surgery! Sometimes having a spouse doesn't exactly mean being supported, in any manner of the word or at least it can feel that way. And then sometimes even when the spouse is trying, it doesn't seem like it. I think that's where "we" are at... I'm trying to be more patient when I see some changes tho~ Patience.. after 20 plus years w/back pain I think I've finally gained some! Diane, thank you very much for sharing this letter us~ I would have liked to heard you speak re being spouse of chronic pain pt. at the spiney conf. ~ maybe in the future at another one closer to home ... |
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Karma Professor |
I was just cleaning up some old email and ran
into this message from the day after the seminar. It is from Peter
Beckwith, who was originally scheduled to speak about being the spouse
of a chronic pain patient. He could not make it because of his own
pain. He had a single level Charite done by Dr. Regan on Tuesday.
His wife went to Germany in March for a 3-level cervical ADR. After 2 failed surgeries, she was completely disabled. He was uniquely qualified to speak, not only as the spouse of a disabled spiney, but as a chronic pain patient himself. Here is his email to Diane: Amazingly enough, Peter went home from the hospital the day of his ADR surgery and is recovering nicely. Christy is having a slow recovery from her 3-level cervical ADR, but is much better off than before the surgery and is coming back to life. If anyone wants to contact Peter, his website is www.pbeckwith.com. Mark |
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Karma King |
Congrats Peter! And thx for sharing this Mark.
BTW: I could not access Peter's site, but that may not mean much,
considering my luck with reliable web sites...
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Karma Professor |
Thanks Richard... link repaired.
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Karma Master |
Mark, very compelling; thanks.
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<TINA YOUNG>
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I WANT TO THANK MARK AND DIANE FOR THERE
OPENESS, MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BOTH ALWAYS WORKED MAKING GREAT INCOMES,
BECAUSE OF BACK PROBLEMS I CAN NO LONGER WORK AND I FEEL GUILTY FOR HIM
HAVING TO WORK SO MUCH AND TAKE CARE OF THINGS I CANT ON HIS DAYS OFF I
WANT HIM TO TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS BECAUSE OF MY PAIN LEVEL. HE
UNDERSTANDS BUT SOMETIMES I THINK HE IS RESENTFUL TOWARDS THE
SITUATION, HE LOVES ME AND I HIM MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD AND
WE WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR EACHOTHER THERE WAS A POINT ABOUT FOUR YEARS
AGO HE LEFT ME BECAUSE HE COULDN'T HANDLE IT ANYMORE, WE HAVE WORKED
THROUGH THAT AND HE FEELS ASHAMED AND I STILL WONDER IF HE MIGHT COME
TO THE POINT WHERE HE WILL WANT TO LEAVE AGAIN, HE IS A GREAT HUSBAND
AND DAD BUT HE FEELS SO BAD FOR ME HE DOESN'T ALWAYS HANDLE THINGS IN
THE BEST WAY.PLUS LETS FACE IT WHEN YOU HAVE CHRONIC PAIN YOUR NOT
ALWAYS IN THE BEST OF MOODS.
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Karma Chameleon |
All I can say is WOW! I've been reading this
site voraciously for a few weeks now. What an incredible community.
Thanks Mark, Diane and Susan for such a meaningful post that has
touched my heart and opened my eyes to what was happening to my wife
and family. I had no idea. When I showed her this post, we cried in
each other's arms. After a few minutes, she gently sobbed, "that's us."
What more can I say.
Thank you! gary PS. This is my first post. I hope this worked. |
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Karma King |
Gary, thanks for finding us. Let me know if I can help.
"Harrison" info (at) adrsupport.org Founder & Administrator Reborn June 25th, 2004 L5-S1 ADR Charite' in Boston Canceled fusion April 6 2004 Fell on my *** winter 2003 Cell: 617-314-5900 any time! |
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